Trying to become a kind of person that is always:

respectful
kind
quiet - speaking only when necessary
thoughtful
trusting

Personality and Boundaries

It is hard to be disappointed in others if I am busy working on the things in myself that disappoint me. And when I am being the kind of person I want others to be, I am sending them the message of what expect by setting an example. Lastly, by setting my own boundaries of what unacceptable behavior I will not tolerate and being consistent with walking away if that behavior occurs, others know what they cannot get away with.